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Do you try to love unconditionally?

Posted on Feb 1st, 2009 by debbychico : Seeker debbychico
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for February 01, 2009:

Yes I would like to think so. For instance I may be very mad at my kids for something but let someone else try the same thing and I will be all over them. Love and life start in one place first and that should be the home and family. But even though I understand the concept of tough love you should always be there for them.

I have no job, money or time and 2 of my daughters friends have been kicked out of their homes by their parents and are staying with me. All of my kids friends call me mom and tell me more honestly than they do their own parents because their own parents do not listen. I listen and then give them an answer it may not be the one they want to hear but they do listen. I have seen what unconditional love can do. Like I said they may mess up,  do the wrong thing but can tell me about it and they know I will stand by them.

Debby
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Have you been thinking more of the past or the future?

Posted on Feb 3rd, 2009 by debbychico : Seeker debbychico
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for February 03, 2009:

HMMM  That is a tough one. I think it is the future. My last 2 years and going on still have been tough. Divorce, moving twice, no job and then starting college at the age of 48. But I guess you get to a point where anything is game. Since I started college in 2007 I have been sending out internships through different sites and one of them happens to be US Dept. of State.

I applied for many of them from California to Washington DC and beyond/ I now might be going to Iraq shocker but do you know it would not be a bad thing, it would be a life experience.
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What music has made the biggest difference in your life?

Posted on Feb 4th, 2009 by debbychico : Seeker debbychico
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for February 04, 2009:

I think that music plays a different part in our lives for different stages of our lives. My stage right now is when I listen to any one song it brings back memories of a different stage. I can listen to a Led Zepplin song and remember being really young and partying in Kenbworth, London for 2 weeks of an outdoor concert. I can listen to a song and remember getting married. It just depends on what your focus is. Hopefully even if it is a sad memorie you have gotton past it

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What religious figure would you like to have met?

Posted on Feb 5th, 2009 by debbychico : Seeker debbychico
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for February 05, 2009:

Jesus of course, but I also would have loved to meet Mother Theresa.
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What would you like to come back as?

Posted on Feb 6th, 2009 by debbychico : Seeker debbychico
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for February 06, 2009:

Actually that's easy I want to come back as my dog.
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Who or what would you have the hardest time loving?

Posted on Feb 7th, 2009 by debbychico : Seeker debbychico
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for February 07, 2009:

My childrens fathers now that we are divorced I could never love them again.
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What do you search for within yourself?

Posted on Feb 8th, 2009 by debbychico : Seeker debbychico
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for February 08, 2009:

The courage and strength to face the challenges facing me every day. I would challenge anyone to live on less than $600 a month without giving up.
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What do you most need to learn?

Posted on Feb 9th, 2009 by debbychico : Seeker debbychico
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for February 09, 2009:

How to have more time in a day. LOL
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What do you think you're supposed to learn in this lifetime?

Posted on Feb 10th, 2009 by debbychico : Seeker debbychico
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for February 10, 2009:

I do not think that what "you're suppose to learn" is the correct answer but I am adding an attachment as to what 1st graders have learned and it is based I guess on what they have been taught and their experiences. John Locke, noted philosopher from the 1600's agrees our learning is based on mostly our experiences. See attachment as to what children in the 1st grade have learned.
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What was the last hint you were given of your purpose?

Posted on Feb 11th, 2009 by debbychico : Seeker debbychico
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for February 11, 2009:

I am not sure if  ever was given "my purpose". but I do think we all have a purpose. Mine as far as I can telll is to produce new lives as in my children, raise them to be productive members of the world and I have done that.
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What has been a recurring theme over the past few months?

Posted on Feb 12th, 2009 by debbychico : Seeker debbychico
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for February 12, 2009:

No money, No Jobes and no sure outlook on the future.
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What have you learned about love?

Posted on Feb 13th, 2009 by debbychico : Seeker debbychico
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for February 13, 2009:

Love is the greatest thing on earth even though it can hurt the most.
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If you wrote a Valentine to the world, what would it say?

Posted on Feb 14th, 2009 by debbychico : Seeker debbychico
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for February 14, 2009:

I Love you! Let's be friends, always we are in this together :)
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How do you know when you're on the right path?

Posted on Feb 15th, 2009 by debbychico : Seeker debbychico
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for February 15, 2009:

I do not think that question can be answered because something we do or have happen to us today can actually be putting us on the right path but we may not know that for years to come. But I do think if we follow our hearts that is the right track.
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Where did you come from?

Posted on Feb 18th, 2009 by debbychico : Seeker debbychico
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for February 18, 2009:

my mother

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What would you pick as your word for the week?

Posted on Feb 18th, 2009 by debbychico : Seeker debbychico
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for February 17, 2009:

why???????????????
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What will you never regret?

Posted on Feb 19th, 2009 by debbychico : Seeker debbychico
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for February 19, 2009:

my kids
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What is one thing that there are no words for?

Posted on Feb 20th, 2009 by debbychico : Seeker debbychico
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for February 20, 2009:

stealing
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What have you been carrying the longest?

Posted on Feb 21st, 2009 by debbychico : Seeker debbychico
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for February 21, 2009:

I could name many things but pictures would be the oldest but what sticks in my head is a ceramic possum I made myself for my grandfather and when he died my grandmother gave it back to me.
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Where is your favorite place to hide?

Posted on Feb 22nd, 2009 by debbychico : Seeker debbychico
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for February 22, 2009:

My bed under as many blankets as I can pile on
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What kind of angel would you want to be?

Posted on Feb 24th, 2009 by debbychico : Seeker debbychico
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for February 24, 2009:

I would want to be the type of angel that watches over people who are good but struggling with personal issues weather they may be mind, physical or property. These type of people when held down to long tend to lose sight of more important things.

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What type of weather are you wishing for today?

Posted on Feb 25th, 2009 by debbychico : Seeker debbychico
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for February 25, 2009:

Nice, good and hopeful.
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What is a must and what is not?

Posted on Feb 26th, 2009 by debbychico : Seeker debbychico
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for February 26, 2009:

A must is something needed to support life and what is not a must is everything else

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Share the story of your life, using only six words.

Posted on Feb 27th, 2009 by debbychico : Seeker debbychico
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for February 27, 2009:

Birth, friendship, love, hate, drugs, clean
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What does your body want to say to the world?

Posted on Feb 28th, 2009 by debbychico : Seeker debbychico
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for February 28, 2009:

I love this world and even if I am not perfect this is me ENJOY
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